Most marriages start off in bliss. Wedding bells and white frosting make the day and then real life begins. The constant flirting wares off and you end up seeing each other as you are - human beings who are trying to make life work.<\/p>\n

Sometimes we forget that being human means making mistakes. These mistakes add up in our minds and then next thing we know, we can't let it go.<\/p>\n

Divorce happens for many reasons: money, adultery or general selfishness. Sadly sometimes it happens when people simply fall out of love. But how do you fall out of love?<\/p>

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The truth of \"falling out of love\" is that you both forget to take care of each other. You forget to forgive and move forward.<\/p>\n

Recently Alyssa Royse<\/a> opened up about going through a divorce and what it taught her about marriage. She discussed four main things she went through during her divorce, and it taught her a lot about being married and working with her spouse.<\/p>\n\n

1. Dividing up assets<\/h2>\n
When you are getting divorced, this is what most people think of. Many movies show couples screaming at each other across the room about things they want. For Royse this was not the case.<\/p>\n
She and her ex-husband didn't have a lot of things to argue over, and what they did have was easy for them to divide between the two of them. But what she learned is what was really important to her ex.<\/p>
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Sometimes we go through our lives and forget about what is important to our spouse. We want things done our way or we want to spend money on the new Amazon product, but we forget to see if that is what our spouse wants to do or spend money on.<\/p>\n
We shouldn't feel trapped by our spouse, but we also shouldn't forget to talk to our spouse and make sure we are on the same page.<\/p>\n
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\u2611 Pizza ? \u2611 Great movie ? \u2611 The love of your life \u2764 What else?? ?? #pizzatime #pizzanight #movienight #mybestfriend #theloveofmylife<\/a><\/p>\n
A post shared by M&K (@marcoskathe) on Nov 21, 2017 at 12:36pm PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>
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